For those who seek magick done for you. Why did I get a NO?

This is a very interesting topic,not just for
practitioners, and doubts, but for the people here that do not practice
any magick, but still are looking for some magickal encounter, or aid.
Quite recently, I was asked, by a family member who is quite close to
me, and because of this, he knows that I practice magick. He does not
know much about what practices I do, but he knows that I can manipulate
energies to get a wanted result.
He asked me if I had ever done a spell on someone, and If I would make a spell for him. Of course I
explained how magick worked and the karmic values to teach a non
practitioner or believer of this force, in terms that he would
understand. He understood.

Yet on a site, I recerived an unexpected request, which quite flattered, but indeed, made me think of
how many people are misinformed, or take some answers the wrong way, I
was asked very politely, If I was able to perform a love spell, for
that person. Of course I must add, that I had never in my life heard of
this person before, but that is not the case, how many students have I
not taken who just come up to me from the blue?

As I answered, the no, I do not perform spells for anyone. I also perceived
that this answer could turn out to be quite offensive, and maybe
misunderstood by the petitioner.

As you see beginners, and people seeking magickal aid. Though many people have no problem in
performing the art, for anothers benefit, many of us do have a problem
with it. IT IS NOT THAT WE ARE BEING MEAN, or that we want to keep our
magick just to ourselves...

Because many of us believe in the karmic laws, or threefold law, or whatever you want to call it,
this means that whatever we do will return back. Performing a magick
spell for someone else, especially someone we dont know can bring
serious consecuences, in itself many manipulative spells such as the
love spells bring their consecuences, and many practitioners do not
categorize them in the arts that they perform. Many people have
ulterior motives, and franckly it is risky to do magick for someone who
even if is close to you, can also be hiding feelings, or prior events
that they are unaware of, or just pretend to be. Now, would it be wise
to take the fall, and asume the resposibility because you did someone
elses dirty work? And it doesnt even have to be dirty, there are tons
of other reasons why practitioners wont do magick for other people
besides morale.

I hope this gives people a better idea of why they were rejected. Maybe the person wasnt prepared to do the spell
you asked, many felt a bad vibe, etc. So please practitioners be wise,
and true in your actions, it is wrong to be ripping off people, and
people, do understand, that many people dont even think, that doing a
spell for someone else is right. Its a matter of each individual.

But even then, you musnt give up hope, magic is truly a divine
interaction with life, and its many roads. Though many people will say
no to performing your spell, there are many people who will not reject
helping you out, in performing a basic spell of your own, which is
actually much better than having a complete and utter stranger take
control of your love life..am I right? Good luck to you all, and please
dont be insulting people just because they said no to you, There are
still others who will say yes, and others who will deny certain types
of spells, but say yes to others. :)